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Memory Tips to Conquer Information Overload: Be smart when you rely on cell phones to remember phone numbers!

 
One way to avert and conquer information overload is to let your smart phone remember the phone numbers.  Free your mind for other uses.

 Good idea!  Or is it?

Carla (name changed to protect the guilty) moved to San Francisco.  Saved all the phone numbers of her new friends into speed dial.   Then the unthinkable happened.

Carla fainted, hit her head on the concrete, and wound up in the hospital two nights for tests and safekeeping.  Adding insult to injury, Carla's  cellphone battery died.  She couldn't remember any of her San Francisco friend's phone numbers.  It wasn't amnesia.  She had never learned them in the first place.

No one knew what happened to her until Carla got home, used her phone charger, and once again had access to her friends' phone numbers.

Carla's out-of-communication dilemna could have been avoided.  If only she had learned the phone numbers of just a few key friends.  

Moral of this story is to be smart for yourself.  Remember the essential numbers. And let your smart phone remember the overload.  

Here's what you can do:  Think of the top seven phone numbers you would not want to be stuck without should your smart phone not be handy or your battery dead.   Use your fingers to punch in each of those numbers at least once a week.  They'll be top-of-your mind.  That's the "use it or lose it" philosophy.  And brain assurance that you will have the essential numbers at your fingertips when you need them.

Let's hear from you. 

WHAT ARE YOUR "Information Overload 

stories?" 

How about  your "I need to put more Brain-Friendly Life-Style Habits in my life" STORIES?   Blog on and share your LOVE Memory Method stories as well. 

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

 

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Pay Attention. Before you Fret: Where Are My Keys? Worse Yet: Where Is My Car?

How you do anything is how you do almost everything.  Including the art of paying attention.  Whether it’s for business or for every day life, the ability to pay attention is a necessary skill to master.  It’s a major step in the art of remembering.  After all, you can’t forget what you didn’t get to begin with (and you can quote me on that!).

Attention (or lack thereof) case in point. 

I was recently at a Cubs-Sox spring-training baseball game.  Over 10,000 fans came to cheer.  They came spilling out from about 3,000 cars.  Cars spread out in a multitude of parking lots streaming into the Arizona Camelback Ranch Stadium.  Excited fans chattered away to friends as they vacated their vehicles and headed toward a fun afternoon at the old ball game.  How many, I wondered, were on auto pilot - heedless of the need to pay attention?

To be perfectly honest, I’m more of a people person than a baseball fan.  Rather than watch the game, I pay attention to the peripherals.   I’m out there for the fun, the camaraderie, the fresh air, the food, and the chance to sing the “Star Spangled Banner”, “Take Me Out to the Ballgame” and to stand for the seventh inning stretch.  

As I sat by myself in the shade high up behind home plate, apart from my friends who crave the sun, my mind, in awe of the huge turnout, pondered a great Hansel-and-Gretel-type philosophical question:  how easily all these fans could head directly back to their car without getting lost? 

So, friendly soul that I, and most ballpark attendees are, I stopped my talking-to-myself mental chatter and began to ask my surrounding seatmates that very same question. 

Here’s the results of my “did you pay attention?” straw poll:

Three fans paid enough attention to know precisely where they parked their car.  Nine out of twelve people questioned had a vague idea, giving new meaning to the phrase, “out of the ball park.”

Can you relate?  

Here’s some “How to Pay Attention” suggestions.

I find them helpful.  I hope you will too.

Read on…

If you hear someone shouting "FIRE" you will certainly stop and pay attention. Well, a similar attention-getting device is what you need to create for yourself every time you are about to leave your car.

When getting out of your parked car - whether lost in thought (talking to yourself), or talking with friends in person or on the cellphone - it takes strong self control to stop - take a deep breath - and pay attention to where you are. 

This might sound silly, but it truly works for me. As I am about to open the car door, my inner self shouts "stop," my creative self envisions a bright red light on the doorhandle, and I take a deep breath. That little pause brings my mind back to the present moment. I run down my checklist, both inside the car and out, and then I can leave with the brain assurance that my car is locked up, I have everything I need with me, and I can find my way back.

THIS IS IMPORTANT:  No matter what you are thinking or doing, the moment you pull into a parking space, it’s time to take a deep breath and pay attention to such vital statistics as:

• Do I have my keys?
• cellphone?
• wallet?
  
• hat?
• tickets?... 
• Did I lock the car door?
• Where, precisely, did I park my car?
  
• Which way am I walking?
• Let me count the rows.”

(And you'd better not have as your marker the white van parked at the beginning of your row, cause chances are the lot is littered with a multitude of white vans parked at the ends of rows.  Moreover, what are the odds that your white van marker will still be there when you need it as a beaconing light pointing to your car?)

Oh the trickle down possible hazzards of not paying attention abound. Tired feet and hot sun at the end of the game make it especially valuable to use a skill like my LOVE Memory Method to remember precisely where you parked your car.

If you would like to read an excerpt from WHERE ARE MY KEYS? on how to LOVE (an acronym for the four easy steps) where you parked your car, just email me:  judy@memorylady.com and I’ll send you a FREE copy of that section.

A good memory is dependant upon an internal system that calls your attention to key moments.

After all, life is better when you pay attention.  Then you are in position to trust your brain to remember.

I invite you to create an internal, sure-fire pay attention alert for yourself. And then consciously practice it every day for thirty days until it becomes a habit. Then again for another thirty days (and so on for ever after).  Then you can safely leave your car, knowing you made your remembering unforgettable.

Download Pay Attention at the Ball Game

Let's hear from you. 

WHAT ARE YOUR "I

didn't pay attention and lost my car

" stories and your "I need to put more Brain-Friendly Life-Style Habits in my life" STORIES?   Blog on and share your LOVE Memory Method stories as well. 

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

 

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Reprint Permission: You are welcome to reprint any items from the Memory Improvement Tips Blog.  However, please credit Judy Marcus, Memory Lady, as a source, with the following paragraph:

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Judy's blog features tips and strategies to take control of your memory and keep your brain strong."

 

LOVE Your Memory. An Unforgettable Valentine's Day Gift for Your BRAIN (Back again this year by popular demand)

A Valentine's Day Gift                                                                                       from Judy Marcus, Memory Lady, creator of the LOVE Memory Method

Here's a Valentine Gift to your BRAIN:  

Just email me at judy@memorylady.com and request 

your FREE copy of a 

Brain-Friendly Lifestyle Habit Checklist.

Life's better when you trust your brain to remember (and you can quote me on that)!

My strategy to keep your brain as strong as possible for as long as possible is to take the two-pronged, holistic approach.

Both steps are vital (and we have lots of fun practicing both in my WHERE ARE MY KEYS? workshops):

One is to use the LOVE Memory Method, an easy to learn, fun to use, unforgettable system that helps you remember anything and everything you choose to remember.  (I've written lots about this on my Blog, in my book WHERE ARE MY KEYS? and my Website www.memorylady.com)
 

The second is to live a brain-friendly lifestyle that allows you to keep away the mental cobwebs, increase your mental energy, and focus on where you want to place your attention.  (I've written lots about this too)

So make every day Valentine's Day for your brain.

And don't forget to email me at judy@memorylady.com and request your FREE Brain-Friendly Lifestyle Habit Checklist!  

You and your brain will be glad you did!

P.S.  Happy Valentine's Day!!!!!

Let's hear from you. 

 

WHAT ARE YOUR "I need to put more Brain-Friendly Life-Style Habits in my life" STORIES?   Blog on and share your LOVE Memory Method stories as well. 

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

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WHERE ARE MY KEYS?, a fun, interactive, memory training event!

I'm appearing at Maxim's in Chicago to present a fun-filled, info-tainment event for Tea at 3.

Hope you can be there.  And, please, TELL YOUR FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES TOO!

Click on the "Open Publication" link below this picture for the full flyer.

P.S.  The photo is by Steve Starr, www.stevestarrstudios.com

http://www.MemoryLady.com/MaximsTea.pdfOPEN PUBLICATION

How to Make Your Memory Self-Accountable so you Remember to Stop and Pay Attention Before you Get Hurt

What makes your brain accountable to pay attention to what you need to remember to do?

NYC found a way to assure that their eateries won't forget to perform to the max.  In an effort to make New York City restaurants accountable for cleanliness, the NYC restaurants must now post their inspection report cards - big and clear - in the window near the entrance.  If they want customers to come inside, they had better have a great big letter "A" on the outside.  I certainly wouldn't want to eat in an establishment that had anything less than an "A" in the clean department.  Would you?  

You can read more about the restaurant situation if you follow this link to an article in USA Today written by Sara Kugler, API writer  but click on it after you finish reading the rest of THIS MEMORY ARTICLE. (I'll remind you in case you forget.)  http://www.usatoday.com/money/industries/food/2010-03-17-nyc-restaurant-grades_N.htm

As for keeping yourself on the memory track, The School of Hard Knocks is certainly one way to get yourself to remember to pay attention.  And I mean that literally.  

I was climbing Camelback Mountain and got all the way up to the cages.  Rather than cling to the cyclone fence on the left to help pull me up, macho me instead opted for the rocks on the right.  Necessity made me lean low, almost on my knees, to scramble up the path.  When the path seemed a little easier, I decided to stand up.  What I didn't realize was that the boulders on the right had curved and were now hanging directly over my head.  When I stod up -- OUCH - CRACK-SNAPPLE-POP.  The noise in my head was SO LOUD.  And it HURT.  I was amazed that my head didn't crack open.  I am amazingly lucky.  No concussion.  No blood.  So I collected my senses, and despite the loud sound still resonating of hard rock plummeting into my head, I continued up to the point on the mountain where I draw my personal line, 
 reflect on the fun, the view, the personal accomplishment, and I began my trek down.

On the right is me and my husband Steve at the cages, after I bumped my head.

On the left is Steve heading toward the point beyond which I refuse to go.  The person above him is at the railing that I actually touched once in my lifetime - a few years ago.  This is where I draw my personal line and know I need and dare not go higher.  (Even a double-dog dare wouldn't get me to change my mind.) 
 

No, that wasn't the first time I climbed Camelback.  But it was the first, and hopefully the last time, that I banged my head on a boulder.

Q:  So the question is, as you go about your daily life, how can you create warning signs like the NYC restaurants now have posted on their windows (i.e. "B" grade for cleanlieness, enter at your own risk)?  

How can you make your self pay attention - before the fact - so you don't hit your head on a boulder, or forget to unplug the coffee pot before you leave your house, or forget to do whatever else that needs doing?  

A:  Mindfulness.  Self-knowledge.  Being present to the moment.

The self-accountability solutions are simple.  But they're often hard to remember to do.  Especially when you're rushing.  Here's what helps:

• Pause between activities - at every intersection.  
• Take a deep breath.  
• Ask yourself what you need to do here.  
• Reset your intention.    

Self-accountability would have worked when climbing Camelback Mountain.  Had I paused to really look at the path on my right, I would have noticed that the boulder began to jut overhead. I would have been aware of the potential danger and would not have stood up without looking up first. 

Self-accountability has worked for me unplugging my coffee pot before I leave the house.  Once having to call my neighbor to go in and unplug it was enough.

Self-accountability has worked for me to not lock my keys in the car.  Once was enough.

If you think about it, it's miraculous how many potential mishaps we manage to avoid as we go about the business of ordinary everyday life.  And, when we get into the habit of Self-awareness, Mindfulness, Being Present in the Moment, then we have a better chance of giving ourselves a warning notice before we misact, thus avoiding the pain of forgetting without having to experience the School of Hard Knocks.

Let's hear from you. 

WHAT ARE YOUR "OUCH - I need to put more Mindful Habits in my life" STORIES?   Blog on and share your LOVE Memory Method stories as well. 

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

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Reprint Permission: You are welcome to reprint any items from the Memory Improvement Tips Blog.  However, please credit Judy Marcus, Memory Lady, as a source, with the following paragraph:

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p.s.  I promised I would remind you:  Here's the link to the NYC restaurant article in USA Today:  NYC restaurants must now show their report cards.  If this doesn't work, then just cut and paste to get to this article:  http://www.usatoday.com/money/industries/food/2010-03-17-nyc-restaurant-grades_N.htm

A Valentine's Day Gift from Judy Marcus, Memory Lady, creator of the LOVE Memory Method

Here's a Valentine Gift to your BRAIN:  

Just email me at judy@memorylady.com and request 

your FREE copy of a 

Brain-Friendly Lifestyle Habit Checklist.

Life's better when you trust your brain to remember (and you can quote me on that)!

My strategy to keep your brain as strong as possible for as long as possible is to take the two-pronged, holistic approach.

Both steps are vital (and we have lots of fun practicing both in my WHERE ARE MY KEYS? workshops):

One is to use the LOVE Memory Method, an easy to learn, fun to use, unforgettable system that helps you remember anything and everything you choose to remember.  (I've written lots about this on my Blog, in my book WHERE ARE MY KEYS? and my Website www.memorylady.com)

The second is to live a brain-friendly lifestyle that allows you to keep away the mental cobwebs, increase your mental energy, and focus on where you want to place your attention.  (I've written lots about this too)

So make every day Valentine's Day for your brain.

And don't forget to email me at judy@memorylady.com and request your FREE Brain-Friendly Lifestyle Habit Checklist!  

You and your brain will be glad you did!

P.S.  Happy Valentine's Day!!!!!

Let's hear from you. 

WHAT ARE YOUR "I need to put more Brain-Friendly Life-Style Habits in my life" STORIES?   Blog on and share your LOVE Memory Method stories as well. 

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

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What do the LOVE Memory Method, Obama's Reggie Love, and my cousin Fred's wife Janet have in common?

Wouldn't you LOVE to have a great memory?

President Obama doesn't need to remember where he put his jacket, pen, or list of phone numbers.  He uses Reggie Love, his personal aid, to remember for him.  See (On the Court and on the Trail, One Aide Looms Over Obama - NYTimes.com)

• Love is Obama's system of brain assurance.  This frees the President to spend his mental energy on important matters of State.    
• My cousin Fred uses his wife Janet, the woman he loves, to keep track of where he put his keys and other belongings. 
• In lieu of having a Reggie Love or a Cousin Janet on your memory team, here's another approach:

You, too, can use LOVE to remember - in both business and every day life. 

Just as "Kleenix" is the generic word for "tissue", 

I hope to see "LOVE" as the

 generic, household word for "remember." 

As in "LOVE where you park your car", or "LOVE the name of the book you're reading, or "LOVE your best friend's cellphone number just in case your speed-dial's not available. 

I'm talking about the four-step LOVE Memory Method.  It's an acronym I created - to make remembering unforgettable.  It works for me when I use it.  It works for countless people around the world, and it can work for you, too.  

The word LOVE is an acronym for the four actions you need to take to capture, record and recall anything and everything you choose to remember, instantly, upon demand.  It's easy to learn, fun to use, and best of all, it works.

     This method works for anything you actively choose to remember.  Next time you meet someone new, apply the four-step LOVE acronym: 

• Look:  See the face, listen to the name, use your finger to write the name in your palm. 
• Overstate:   Think something outrageous about their name, i.e.  Sherrie Wolf. Imagine Sherrie chugging a bottle of Sherry while riding on the back of a dancing wolf. 
• Visualize:  Picture the outrageous image in your mind's eye on the movie screen right inside your forehead.
• Engrave:  Repeat this movie image every twenty minutes until it's firmly stored in your brain.

Those of you reading this article who don't yet "remember with LOVE" 

• can see a longer explanation in the December, 2007 archives of this blog.  
• can go to my website or Amazon.com to order a copy of my book, WHERE ARE MY KEYS?  
• can invite me to speak in person at your next event.    

In this fast-paced world, where our minds are scattered in so many directions, we need to take control of our memory.  And, life's better when we trust our brain to remember.

Yes, you can trust your brain to remember what you choose to remember, when you take the time to remember with LOVE. 

Let's hear from you.  

WHAT ARE YOUR STORIES?  Blog on and share your LOVE Memory Method stories.

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

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WHAT ARE YOUR STORIES?  Blog on and share your LOVE Memory Method stories.

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

(Copyright - Judy Marcus - 2009)**********************************************************************************************************

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Mindful Driving Makes for a Better Memory (and it's environmentally friendly too): Awareness is Easy - if you're willing to make the time and stay on task.

Ever wonder where the time has gone?  For most of us, life whizzes by because we're thinking of one thing while doing another.

Ever wonder how you got two roadways past your exit?  That's because we whizzed by our exit while our mind was on what we were going to say to our client when we called - or what we didn't say this morning to our friend - or our brain is mentally jumping like a grasshopper from chore to unfinished chore, worrying about our over-busy schedule.

Monkey mind, as the meditation gurus call it.  Chatter, chatter, chatter.  A wandering mind.  A busy mind.  An A.D.D. mind.  An over-multi-tasking mind.  WHOAH!!!!!

Take a deep breath.  It's time to quiet down and be mindful.

Being mindful means being aware of what you're doing at this very moment.   It's keeping all your senses in allignment -- on the present moment. 

Driving Mindfully: 

Set your intention.  When you're driving, before you head out, think of your destination and the route to get there.  And leave early enough to give yourself a driving time cushion to feel comfortable -unhurried - not rushed (This allows your finer self to come out and eliminates any potential road rage, plus giving you a more alert, relaxing, enjoyable experience.) 

Once you're on your way, look at where you're going, listen to the sounds of the traffic, feel the steering wheel under your hands, smell the heat or the air conditioning or the fresh air from the open window.  

And definitely think about HOW you are driving.

Are you driving safely?  Paying attention to the road?  Seat belt clicked?  Within the speed limit?

Is your driving environmentally friendly? Hypermiling is a word that's new to me.  It's a good one to add to your vocabulary.   

• It's about modifying your driving to improve mileage and reduce emissions.  
• It's about getting good gas mileage because you're slowing down as soon as you see the light turning red. 
• It's about replacing air in your tires - on-time car tune-ups - driving gently, not aggressively. 
• It also helps you keep your mind on the cars around you, which makes for safer, more alert driving.  
• And lets you remember where you are going and where to turn off.

And don't forget, once you turn off the motor, to ask yourself, "Where Are My Keys?" and "Where is my car parked?"

Let's hear from you.  Do you ever forget to turn off at your destination because your mind is wandering?  What do you do to drive mindfully?

WHAT ARE YOUR STORIES?  Blog on and share your driving mindfully stories.

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

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WHAT ARE YOUR STORIES?  Blog on and share your driving mindfully stories.

Blog on with your comments.  And forward this blog to as many friends and associates as you wish.  Hopefully they'll become Memory Tipsters as well. 

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